Tom's Reality Project

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  • When Your Barn Catches Fire

    While I don’t commute frequently, my drive is noticeably healthier when I’m filling the car with classical music rather than news or talk radio.  Rachmaninoff rather than Rachel Maddow truly calms my nerves and psyche in traffic.  So last week on Interstate 5, as the initial chords of Stravinsky’s Firebird Suite filled my aging Subaru, the

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    November 24, 2025
    Uncategorized
    health
  • Turning A Corner, but Still Looking Back

    Stepping on a treadmill with a heart monitor strapped to my chest, a light chill of anticipation rippled up my spine as I pushed the start button.  A new phase of my heart surgery journey had commenced. In the scary days right after surgery, I tried to focus on the longer road ahead and not my

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    September 9, 2025
    Heart surgery
    health, Heart surgery, surgery
  • The Gut Check of Recovery

    Today’s #1 goal was to marshall the energy and brainpower to convey how the initial post-hospital phase of open heart surgery recovery is going.  (Long story short: it’s freaking exhausting!) On Wednesday I mark four weeks since my surgery to replace a failing aortic valve.  It also will be 18 days since I came home. In a

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    August 12, 2025
    Heart surgery
    health, life, mental-health, sleep, writing
  • Spicy Surgery and a Remarkable Recovery!

    At almost three weeks post surgery I have settled into a new (temporary) normal that is way better than being in the hospital, but a long way from complete recovery.  Today is 19 days since the 7-hour aortic valve replacement procedure that changed my life forever and gave me new hope for returning to my robust

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    August 5, 2025
    Heart surgery
    cancer, health, life, mental-health, surgery
  • Now Expecting … Heart Surgery!

    If it takes heart surgery to finally get me to begin writing, then so be it.  Lord knows I have a multitude of journeys to chronicle, but for now this “breaking news” is my only focus.  In March, I was diagnosed with severe aortic stenosis after spending most of a weekend in Seattle Northwest Hospital undergoing

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    July 13, 2025
    Heart surgery
    Heart surgery

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